# Lessons

Originally published: 2013-02-19
Canonical URL: /2013/Feb/lessons/

It turns out that I've been doing human psychology wrong, _all_ wrong. My entire life, I've been modeling other people as defective versions of my model of myself, and I just didn't notice that that doesn't work. ([Even though I was warned](http://zackmdavis.net/blog/2013/01/three-problems-with-unsolicited-advice/).)